Episcopal Social Services of New York

“Why I Give?” A Donor’s Story

Cristina’s Story

Sadly, for many children from low-income families right here in New York City, the magic of the holiday season is at risk of being only a dream. But, thanks to generous people like Cristina Avello, the children served by ESS will experience breathtaking holiday moments as hundreds of children open gifts from “Santa’s Helpers.”

Following the model of a program developed in her native Spain, The True Wise Kings”, Cristina incorporated a project dear to her heart with our existing Winter Wonders Gift Drive and she and her friends provided gifts for over 115 children last holiday season. They are already in the midst of this year’s drive. “I give because it sets a positive example for my children. Christmas is our favorite time of year and it feels good to share that excitement and joy with others who may not be as fortunate”

The True Wise Kings has religious roots in the Biblical story of the birth of Jesus Christ and the gifts of Three Wise Men.  In Spain, the gifts are distributed at religious centers and are viewed as a Christmas Miracle from God with little to no emphasis on Santa Claus. The children regard their presents as gifts from God.

Cristina sought a similar program when she learned about Winter Wonders. She brought her idea to ESS and was matched with Early Childhood Education. The idea started to spread, and in the end Cristina and 76 of her friends and associates provided over 100 gifts to children in Early Head Start, and other Childhood Education centers. This year, they have already adopted 292 children that span six sites, and Christmas is still weeks away!

As a child, Cristina volunteered as an aid to elderly people and provided primary care respite. She states that it’s very important for her to continue to give back and set a positive example for her children.  Cristina likened the reception of the gifts to her own children stating that Christmas at her house is loud, with laughter and happy cheers as her kids are opening their gifts. When the children at ESS open their gifts, however it is a completely different picture. The appreciation in the room could actually be felt. Cristina remarked at the silence of disbelief, and the sincere appreciation. “That was the sight that makes it all worthwhile. Especially in this economic downfall, it’s relieving for parents to know that their child is going to get a gift. It’s beneficial for the whole family.”

Some of the children had not experienced the magic of Santa before, and some were too young to initially understand what was going on. Parents and teachers helped the children to write letters, and were overjoyed in the smiles and laughter of their children as they received the gifts that they asked for. This made giving and receiving the gifts from “Santa” an even more joyous occasion, especially for the volunteers. Some of whom participated in this type of event for the first time and were shocked to see how an insignificant purchase for them—a doll, or a game—could mean so much to a child.

Cristina is just one of many with generous hearts. We invite you to create and share your giving story as well.  To join ESS in Winter Wonders this year, or to fashion your own giving event please send an e-mail to development@e-s-s.org, or call (212) 886 – 5622. We also encourage the donation of gift cards for our older youth and teens in foster care.